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Girls, speak up.

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Don't you think it's really funny how certain people still have the mindset that boys are the superior sex compared to girls.

And I don't blame the boys for thinking so sometimes. Why? Because girls themselves behave in such a way that it seems like we are the 'second class citizens' wtf. Face it, many of your friends' mom [if not, yours'] decided to 'retire' at 35 just right after their hubby made it in life. Yes, here I am talking about THE money matter.

I have to say, I really have my fair share of disgust when I see successful corporate ladies stopping work and proceed to become a full time 'house wife' the second their husbands made it big. Housewife? Tai tai gotlah what housewife? And no offence to those who really stop work for the welfare of the family, by all means, I salute you. What I don't get is still, why would women choose the usual same muddy path majority of females choose and give up on your high flying career? Isn't it sad, that you can't feel any joy or satisfaction working for your earn? For me, it's a life wasted when you start depending on your husbands, the sole breadwinner of the family- and the king of the household.

I don't think it's the matter of 'we-earn-enough-to-survive' but more of the 'i-am-useful' issue here. It's the sense of achievement one feels- and definitely, it's not the kind of feeling you get when you purchase your LV bag to impress your neighbors. When one choose to sign the resignation letter for the slippery path down the housewifehood, you not only sign away your job, you sign away your freedom. You have nobody to turn to once your marriage turns sour. And stupidly enough, some would even create joint accounts with their husband which simply means, they lost their financial freedom should anything not-so-sweeeeeeet happen.

Not only that, don't you think it's pathetic when a girl starts crying like mad just to justify herself? I had a form mate who started crying like gila babi when she was accused of stealing, which I believe she dare not. I mean, SPEAK UP. Don't cry or whatsoever can. Just argue with facts. When you spend 9.99/10 of your time crying, you are not justifying yourself. Instead, it gives boys the impression that we are all the same, which i beg to differ. -___-" IF you are not guilty, what are those tears for? If you are, what does those tears stand for? That you didn't steal?

Of that, I did not, is not and will not understand. Maybe it's the lacking of presence of fear in me, but for whatever it is, I think girls should really speak up for our rights. Not just whining and whining over how we are unfairly treated. I don't think we are though. I believe when we behave more like 'earthly beings', nobody, at this era, will treat us any different just because of our gender. It's just those few who feel unfairly treated, and I think they have nobody but themselves to blame.

I don't know why I am even blogging about this. I think it's after the stealing incident that I come to my senses that girls are sometimes so useless they can't even speak up for themselves but when it comes to bithcing session they have a mouthload to talk about. -___-"

Labels: Life, rights, women

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